Showing posts with label teens. Show all posts
Showing posts with label teens. Show all posts

Monday, May 16, 2011

Am I losing my mind???

5/16/2011 0 Comments
I just have to express how hard it is to raise a pre-teen and I find it scary to think that she will be a full blown teen very soon and it is all downhill from here! Currently, I have to practically beg her to shower and clean her room. I have to force her to do her homework and man, I honestly think that someone spilled super glue on the couch because her ass is stuck to it. Please tell me someone can relate. This shit is gonna drive me nuts. Or, am I already nuts?? She thinks I am. Maybe she is right.

Yesterday I told Princess that if she chose to leave her dishes and not put them in the dishwasher then she would not be able to eat again until she hand washed the dish. That sounded reasonable to me. Her, not so much. She looked at me and said,"Wow Mom, that's harsh!!". Harsh, she has no clue what harsh is. Harsh to wash a dish. Ummm... I'm not beating her or making her wash all of dinner dishes. I think it pretty easy. But again, her mouth does not shut. I think that is another issue lately. She has a case of Diarrhea mouth. I truly hope that is what it is because it seems as if she has no control of the shit that quickly flows out her mouth.  Everything I say to her she has something more to add. It never ends. I sure hope they continue to grow as fast as they did when they were little so she can grow right out of this stage. Then she can slow down again. Better yet, has anybody found the reset button?? Even a rewind button?

Well, I guess I am done with my rant and I think I really am going crazy. But... this to shall pass, I hope!!! 

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Talk-a-Holic

11/23/2010 3 Comments
Just pivot, I said to myself today as I was reading my daughter's report card. I am sure I have mentioned how hard it is to sit down with her and do homework. My youngest is breathing down my neck and screaming every time I try to offer her some help. Eventually I am told by my daughter to forget it cause she can't hear what I am saying any way. Boy how I wish that I had an extra set of hands to be able to help her and work with my youngest to keep him occupied. Regardless of that, surprisingly the flaw is not in the homework area actually the teacher had commented that she shows good homework effort. So, Where is the problem??

She can't keep her mouth shut for one. I knew that here at home but apparently she can't stop talking in school either. Ummm... I am not sure what to do about this. Duct tape??? kidding!!! She is talking so much she got a C in Art. I can't even see that as a possibility. This kid is smart and I just don't know what to do about this one. I can't even find the positive intent. I guess she could have been trying to be friendly or trying to help everyone else but umm... Damn this Mommy thing is so hard.

So, I am going to breathe and try not to yell and explain the importance of her schooling. I really don't think she will care right now but hey, it is worth a shot. I will also explain when it is OK to socialize and when her brain needs to be thinking with her mouth shut. I just can't figure out how to be positive with this chat. Any ideas or suggestions are welcome.  HELP!!!!!
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